
If you have sex with a person, that is not devoid from your thinking about that person at the time. It is a real experience. If you masterbate whilst thinking about them, that is a different experience with the same result. Both are real experiences.
If you think about them but take no action to make your thoughts a reality, that is either you remembering a memory or an unreal fantasy.
If you take an image (or create one) and assign a meaning to it and it subsequently manifests in your life, that is you creating your life. If it doesn't manifest, it is fantasy.
Fantasies are harmless. We fantasise to spice up our boring lives. Some fantasies are too bizarre to turn into reality yet others just need us to take action.
I understand why people 'believe' in a saviour – because without one there is no hope.
I understand why people revere their families – because they give them hope for the future.
We've all been lied to big time.
I'm now going to tell you what I have concluded to be the truth of our existence here. I am sharing this for no other reason than it might help you in some way. It is my truth – what I have concluded from my time here and from my many out of body experiences.
We are here because we are equal to here. When we die we go to where we are equal to – the Light.
The level of consciousness in the Light is the same as the level of consciousness here. So when we leave here we go there and when we get there we can either stay there or come back here (usually to the same family).
To go anywhere else, we have to become equal to that other place.
So us oscillating between here and the Light is kind of a trap – a consciousness trap. But we are only trapped by our own level of consciousness (our own state of mind).
If you are happy with this level of consciousness then you don't need to do anything. The Light is just an exagerrated form of good and bad. Think of it as a hologram where you can have any aspect of its polarised consciousness.
However, if you are unhappy here, then you will also be unhappy in the Light. Thus to go elsewhere, you must change by raising your level of consciousness to unconditional love.
Now unconditional love is not emotions; it's the absence of them. It's not holding on; it's letting go.
To go to a 'higher' World, we have to completely let go of this World and its mirror – the Light ~ Gary Bate.
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